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I am studying abroad in Mali from Feb 2nd - May 18th 2008 with SIT's Gender Health and Development program. I will have limited internet access but want to update this as frequently as possibly so that you will know a little about what I'm up to. *** Comment! Okay?? Awsome. ***

Sunday, March 02, 2008

tu es mon esclave!

in mali people rep their last name like american rappers rep their city. when you introduce yourself they always want first and last name and if you share the same last name its like a mini celebration. if you dont share the last name they might joke with you saying theirs is better than yours. the most common way to diss someones name is to tell them that family 'eats beans' or that your people are their people's slaves. both these jokes are considered hilarious. awk as a white american? you'd think so. i think so. malians don't seem to think so... i am not telling anyone to be my slave. nuh uh


on the topic of names, mine is nene doumbia -- i found out that 'nene' means cold and 'doumbia' blacksmith. nene is the name of the oldest of my siblings. in my family a lot of people have the same name, as a tradition to honor relatives, and then are given nicknames that they go by on a daily basis. there are two mele's in my fam, three ba's, at least three or four ibrahim farabans, four or more moussa fasiqi's... as you can imagine it makes it hard for me to figure out who is who haha. last night i had my host father map out a family tree which helped a little. except by now they think i know peoples names when really i do not so i am kind of stuck...

this coming week all students are travelling to sanankoroba, a rural village. i will have to practice my bambara bc very few adults there speak french. we are returning to bamako on saturday the 8th which is international womens day and there is a big event for it in bamako which my cousin invited me to. details on that next week.

2 Comments:

  • At 9:22 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    I can see why the slave thing would be a little uncomfortable for you as a white American...somehow, and probably inappropriately, I find it mildly entertaining. What's the deal with "your family eats beans?" Why is that considered insulting?

    I can just imagine the confusion with the family tree. At least there are lots of names in common, so when you're expected to know someone's name and you don't, you can make a guess like "ibrahim!" and you've got a statistically significant chance of getting it right...

    As always, keep the updates coming and I send you my love!

     
  • At 9:31 AM , Blogger Fern Selesnick said...

    Hi Nene Doumbia-
    So you are a cold blacksmith, eh? Interesting. Another interesting thing is that the name Selesnick means "Mountain of Iron" - not sure if that's the Russian or the Lithuanian translation but I always took it to mean that that side of the family might have been blacksmiths! Thought it maybe meant "Man of Iron" or something like that. Hmmm. Coincidence worth noting, I think. Loved your blog. It made me smile. Hard to figure another culture's humor at times, eh? When I was growing up, kids used to insult each other by yelling "Your Mother!" Who knows what that meant? Loved hearing about the family trees and name confusion. Sounds like you're getting along ok so far. Amusing to read about. Hope the village stay was/is wonderful. Looking forward to hearing all about it, plus about the Intn'l Women's Day celeb. Love you- Mom
    p.s. Your airline tix have arrived in Bameko!

     

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